FARNSWORTH'S FIRST LAW
OF LIFE, LEADERSHIP, AND VACUUMS:
Unless you fill your
time with passion and purpose, worthless clutter will get sucked into your
life.
24/7.
No matter how we do the math, it always adds up to 168 hours per
week. Whether we're male or female; old or young; beautiful or plain; married,
single, or somewhere in between, everyone gets the same number: 168.
The issue is never the number of hours; it is always what we
choose to do with those hours.
Nature abhors a vacuum. If we don't fill our time with worthwhile activity, all kinds of
clutter will rush in to fill the void. Before long, all that stuff smothers the
life out of us.
During my 66 years on this planet, I have witnessed a quantum leap
in the number of ways we can spend our time. While the amount of currency we
have in our pockets has stayed the same - 168 per week - the size of the bazaar
has mushroomed and the glitter of the merchandise has gotten much shinier.
Sometimes shinier is not better. Lately it seems that much of what
is for sale in the marketplace of life serves only to distract and amuse us,
rather than nourish, inspire, strengthen, and connect us.
If we're not careful, we can end up spending a large chunk of
those 168 hours surfing, tweeting, watching sports, working puzzles, playing
video games, and mastering virtual worlds. While such distractions may not be
harmful per se, they can cut into our capacity to make a difference in the real
world and can prevent us from experiencing a more abundant life.
The hours and the energy we spend killing angry birds (or whatever
is our personal drug of choice) are lost forever to doing things of more
lasting value, like reading to our children, learning to paint, teaching a
grandchild to fish, planting green beans, taking a walk with our spouse,
strengthening our faith, or sharing stories with a shut-in.
Unfortunately, an inclination to do good is no longer sufficient
to withstand the allure of mindless amusement. Today, the siren call of
distractions is so powerful that only those who have found a deeper, more
passionate purpose in their being and who use their time to bring that purpose
to life are able to resist it.
Discovering why we are here, our purpose for being, is the only
sure way to protect ourselves from the curse of shallow amusement. Knowing our
purpose fills our life with direction and meaning, and crowds out clutter and
drivel.
It also helps us find our passion and learn what makes us come
alive. When we are doing what we truly love, we have no need for vacuous
distractions.
It is not crucial whether following our purpose and passion is our
vocation or an avocation. What is important is that it engages us, inspires us,
and drives us to excellence.
When we fill the space at our core with purpose and passion, we
eliminate the vacuum that sucks in less meaningful ways of using our
time. We are energized and empowered to transform the real world,
and we find lasting joy in doing so. The result is a life of greater abundance.
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